Monday, August 29, 2011

It Is Beautiful Here


The first year we moved to Colorado, I made a point to be thankful each and every morning for the beauty of Colorado.  It was a great thing for me. . .every day to have at least one thing to be truly grateful for. . .nice to have that perspective and nice to come to God with a thankful heart instead of a me-first-pleasure-seeker heart daily!

Anyway. . .all of that to say, we are starting our third year of living out here full time and I am still just blown away by the beauty!  I love it here!  Each day is gorgeous in a whole new way and I am constantly amazed!

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Andy's 42 Hours Home

Well, Andy came home yesterday for the weekend.  We were all so excited to see him!  Yesterday was work on the pond day. . .Andy is putting a waterfall and a pond in our front yard (to replace the natural run off and stagnant water area that is currently there).  So yesterday the family helped (okay, helped may be pushing it, but we "worked" together).  It started with just Andy shoveling sand while I watched.  Then Gabby decided to help.  Once Gabby got tired, Tiki took over.  Then Hays grabbed another shovel.  Dax may have shoveled one scoop of sand tops.  Maggie was inside singing along with Jordin Sparks on her iPod (I caught her in the act much to her dismay.)  Each kid only lasted about four minutes, but they felt like they helped nevertheless.  It was just fun to be together as a family and we only had one shovel to the head (really elbow to the head) accident amidst all of the chaos!





We are headed to the BMX track this afternoon if everyone wakes up from FOB before the afternoon thunderstorms begin. . .

Thursday, August 25, 2011

Neighborhood

A neighborhood has always been somewhat of a fairy tale-ish mystery to me my entire life.  I've never lived in one.  I would see neighborhoods on TV and I had friends who lived in neighborhoods, but I've never experienced living in one first hand.  There was a time in my life when I wanted nothing to do with a neighborhood--I wanted lots of space with woods and no one within seven arrow-flights (that's old Kanakuk Indian lingo for a ways away).  And then as my kids started getting older and multiplying, I started dreaming of a neighborhood with other children and other mothers.  I dreamed of evening street busy with activity:  boys on bikes, girls giggling and moms walking.  I dreamed of people just dropping by because they were on their way and of seeing people out my window and running to greet them. . . and then chatting for a while.

Well, guess where I live?  THERE!  I do!  After today and tonight I feel so at home here!  I have loved Durango since the moment I moved here and I thought that I felt at home, but I don't think I did.  I think I just loved Durango.  Now I know that I feel at home.

Today I got to run to Target and Sams with a girlfriend--I know, for you city people, that doesn't seem like a big deal, but it is a day trip for us here in Durango.  Valerie has been one of my friends since we moved to Durango, but she is doctor and has been working all of the extra shifts she can in order to pay for a Rwandan adoption, so I don't see her often.  Today she had a day off and she needed to go to Target, so I quickly and happily jumped on board.  I spent the day with a girlfriend and we had a super time!

Then tonight got even better!  My across-the-street-neighbor, Kate (who was also Tiki's kindergarten teacher for two years), was on a jog and I ran up to the street to chat for a bit.  Once we were finished talking, two of Hays's friends biked by and he joined them.  Then a new friend, Kris, stopped by (she is the mother of those two boys).  Meanwhile, three high school girls came to chat and sell me cookie dough.  My driveway was full of people and I loved it!  I stayed outside chatting for about an hour while the kids played.  It was perfect. . . absolutely perfect.

My neighborhood!

And on a side note, my crazy dogs did amazing today!  I am so proud of them!  I had them "out" all day long with no leash and no shock collars and they just hung out in the yard.  It was wonderful!  I think they like living in the neighborhood to!  It was so nice to have "normal" dogs for the day!  (I realize that it may pass, so I am qualifying it with "for the day" for now.)

And to top it all off, my husband was so romantic today.  (He isn't typically Mr. Romance, so this was a biggie!)  He emailed me this picture:


and all he said was, "wish you were here."  Simple, but it swept me away!  Thank you, Andy!  I wish I were there, too!

What a great day!  I am home!


Tuesday, August 23, 2011

What A Day

I don't even know where to begin about this day. . .it has been normal and crazy and surreal and funny all at the same time.

Today started typical. I got up to find Maggie already dressed and ready for school with her lunch made and her backpack on (at 6:15. . .more than one hour BEFORE we walk out the door for school). I made lunches and got "life" sort of put together before I woke up the other kids. I was startled by a large thump and when I ran into the twins room, I found Tiki jumping off of Dax's bed trying to reach the chain deal to turn his fan light on. I'm surprised the fan didn't come out of the ceiling on his head. (And still, my day is normal at this point.) I walked down to Hays's room and turned on the light in his fish tank and switched his iPod from relaxing Billy McLaughlin guitar music to "Batu" by the Putumayo African kids choir. Then I headed to my bed (where Dax sleeps when Andy is gone) to coax him up for the morning; and, like a typical morning, it took a while for him to whale roll himself to a standing position. While we were all eating breakfast, Dax finally stumbled out of my room complaining of a cough and a sore throat. . .anything to keep him out of school so he can stay home with me. So very typical!

Andy Skyped us from the Turks where the sky was gray and the wind was starting to pick up. We could still see the amazing blue of the Caribbean behind him, but the white caps were getting bigger. He was getting ready for his day of hunkering down in anticipation of Irene hitting the island later that afternoon. That is all he knew and that is all we were left with. The kids got to say hi to him and they each got to tell him about their first day of school. Tiki was hysterical! We were Skyping on my laptop and I had it on the floor of my room with only my closet light on, so it was pretty dark. Tiki was in every "scene" with every kid. Whenever I would move the computer for someone else to talk to Andy, Tiki would move to get in the shot. At one point he realized that he could see facial features on all of the other kids' faces, but not on his (too dark in the room). First he tried taking off his hood (from his hoodie sweatshirt) and when that didn't work, he tried getting into the right lighting. He never once said anything about it, but I could see his mind racing. It was cute.

After our morning "routine," we all hopped in the car and headed to school. Normal morning. Normal school drop off: three to Riverview and one to Miller.

Then Gabby and Lesley and I headed to town to run some errands. . .some normal and one not so normal. Good morning overall, though.

While Gabby was taking FOB (nap), I headed to Kivu to pick up my dogs. We put in an electric fence for them at our new house and the time has come to start training. . . .

Meanwhile, I lost communication with Andy. We were chatting about the impending storm about to bear down on the Turks and I guess he lost power. That was a little odd. I was pretty fine about the whole hurricane deal, but when we got cut off while chatting, it just made it a tad weird. I got an email from the wife of the guy Andy is with and she wrote, "wunderground.com has me pretty concerned for them. It looks like they will go right through the eye. . . ." Mind you, she lives in the Turks. Reassuring. (So, still no word from Andy since he got cut off about six hours ago.)

Irene from space as of right now. . .way past the Turks, but I guess they still don't have power.

Everyone made it off the bus just fine from school and they were so excited to see Jake and Chaco back home! The twins played in a huge sand pile all afternoon while some of the others played the Wii inside. Normal afternoon.

Then dinner rolled around (have you stopped reading yet?). We have been eating out too much because I don't have a kitchen in my house yet. . .one more week. So, I grabbed Maggie and headed to get Chinese take out for the family. Well, my mind must have been with Irene (the hurricane) because I got to town and realized that my purse was in the house. So, back up the mountain I went. On the second trip to town, I picked up our food and headed back home. When I got home and opened the bag, I realized that I only had half of my order (I was missing three orders of chicken fried rice minus the veggies). So, I grabbed Hays and back down the mountain I went.

. . . .I must interrupt the story at this point to tell you that Weird Al Yankovic has a new CD out and it is HYSTERICAL!!! Maggie and I and then Hays and I listened to it on all three trips to the Chinese restaurant and laughed so hard. Seriously, go buy it on iTunes. I know, I love Weird Al. You may have just lost all respect for me, but I don't care. He makes me laugh and I love to laugh at his songs every single time. And this new album is no exception! There is a song called "Stop Forwarding that Crap to Me" about all of the dumb forwards people email all of the time and it is hysterical. Then there is a parody of "Party in the USA" called "Party in the CIA" that is also absolutely hysterical! The polka is one of his best (for those of you who know about Weird Al and his polkas)! And there is a parody of "You Belong With Me" called "TMZ" that is super funny. Take a reading break and go start downloading!!!

. . . .So, where was I? May Palace take three. When I got back to May Palace, they explained that they thought I said pork chicken friend rice (???) instead of FOUR chicken fried rice. . .lost in translation. Oh well.

While we were eating dinner, the highlight of my day happened (in bold and underlined in case you got tired of reading and decided to just skim). Five junior high kids stopped by to visit Hays. You cannot possibly understand how happy this made me. NO ONE ever stopped by to see me in 7th grade. It was TERRIBLE and on the second day of school and the fourth day in the neighborhood, Hays had a posse stop by. Highlight of my day. . .maybe of my week. . .maybe of my seventh grade year that I am reliving vicariously through my more-popular-than-me son! They were out walking around and I sent him off! Who cares that is was almost bed time? Who cares that it was nearly dark and we have a bear problem in our neighborhood. Who cares?!?!? My boy had friends (co-ed friends, I might ad) stop by the house! WHOOO HOOOO!! I love this neighborhood!

Meanwhile, I decided to take the dogs on their first training outing. I bought the electric fence for stubborn dogs because my old man, Jake, is very stubborn. So what did Jake do? Walk right through the level five beeping and shocking. . .didn't miss a beat of the tail wag or anything. . .he crossed the boundary with the beeping and the vibrating and the shocking, lifted his leg on a bush and casually sauntered back. WHAT IN THE WORLD? So much for stubborn dog. What to do?

Now the kids are all in bed and I am sitting here telling you about my day. Andy still hasn't called or texted or emailed or anything. The weather channel said that the winds were 100 miles per hour as it went over the Turks. I realize that is a very minor hurricane and I truly am not worried about him. I'm just a little concerned by the unknown. I know he will have a great story to tell and hopefully some amazing video footage of the 25 foot waves crashing into their resort (he is on the 5th floor, so the 25 foot waves won't be coming over his balcony). I'm excited for those stories and that footage. I am also excited to hear from him. . .but maybe not excited enough to wait up too much longer? (Does that make me a bad wife or just a tired mother of five?)

Thanks to those of you who actually read to here. I have no idea why I rambled on and on. . .the day was so weird for me, but doesn't seem so weird now that I type it. I think I get chatty when my mind is two time zones away somewhere south of Florida.  Oh well. (Did I mention that there was a 5.3 earthquake in Colorado last night before the 5.9 hit Virginia. . .weird.)

Good night!

Orphanage Picture


Someone posted pictures on Facebook the other day from when they went to pick up their kids in Rwanda.  Does any little boy look familiar you you (number five from the left)?  He has the most concerned little look on his face. . .I wonder what he was thinking. . . ?  I showed him the picture and he claims not to remember one of the kids.  He did say (after some prodding) that the nanny in the picture was one of the nice ones.  I wonder what was going through his mind when he saw this picture?

This is the "blue gate" that takes you into the orphanage.

Monday, August 22, 2011

First Day Of School


Today was the first day of school. Crazy that my kids are growing up so quickly!

Hays is in seventh grade and that thought makes me sick to my stomach! When I was in seventh or eighth grade, I vowed that my kids would not have to endure junior high. I guess I thought I could move overseas and they could live there for several years. I'm not sure, I just knew that I didn't want my kids to endure junior high. Well, here we are. . .my oldest is set to endure 7th grade. I know he'll do much better than I did, so I shouldn't worry. I just can't believe that he is that old. My baby.

Maggie is in fifth grade. She is getting so big and so grown up. She was so excited to head to school this morning and see her friends (and wear her new school clothes). Her new jeggings have been calling her name from her closet!

Tiki and Dax are in first grade. They have different teachers (thank goodness). I think they'll have a blast! Dax didn't cry today which was a huge blessing! Last night he cried for about thirty minutes, so I thought today would be a disaster. But its all good! He did super and Tiki did super! No tears (even by me).

My prayer list is so long for my kids! I am praying for their safety (emotional, physical and spiritual). I am praying for their teachers and their friends. I am praying that they all make good choices. I am praying that they enjoy school. I am praying that the adults see the good in them and that they are encouraged and challenged. The list goes on and on. It is so weird to be giving your prize possessions to virtual strangers for nearly 40 hours a week. It just doesn't seem natural. GOD, PLEASE PROTECT MY CHILDREN!!!

Colorado With Pops

For the third year in a row, my dad (aka "Pops") drove with me and the kids as we headed West.  It is so fun to have him here.  (Andy and Dax have been in Texas for a wedding.)  The kids absolutely love to have him at our house and we always are "doing" while he is in town.  Yesterday we headed to the Alpine Slides and today we ventured to Mesa Verde.






Pops had a little accident on the slides. . .a little too fast on the part of the track that said "SLOW"...needless to say, he left some skin at Durango Mountain Resort!



Maggie ran into a friend up at the mountain!


Sunday, August 21, 2011

Andy in the Turks

So, Andy is in the Turks this week.  He is supposed to be having a relaxing and fun week in the sun scuba diving and lobster fishing (or whatever you call it).  I am so excited that he got the opportunity to just play for a week now that camp is over!!!

Where is the Turks, you ask?  Well, check out the map of soon-to-be Hurricane Irene. . .see where it says "Tuesday AM"--well, that little island to the left of that line is the Turks.


Enjoy the weather on your sunny island get-away, Mr. Braner!  (At least scuba diving is UNDER the water and you don't really need sun for that.)

Time In Missouri

Well, the kids are FINALLY home!  It was a long month without them, but they had the best time at K1.  Andy and Gabby and I headed to Branson to pick them up from kamp and to spend some time with my family and some of our friends.  We had a super time!






My nephew, Anthony.




My favorite night of the trip.  We did that candle ear wax deal and Andy was our first volunteer.  We laughed SO MUCH that night!  Super fun and great bonding with Courtney and Jennafer!

My niece, Hannah.
This was one of my favorite picture moments.  I was reading at the pool and I looked up to find Dax and Tiki just hanging out on the high dive chatting. . .they stayed up there for about thirty minutes.
My nephew, Jack.

Monday, August 8, 2011

More Pics


I'm sorry, but I think my son is 18 years old in this picture. . .where is my little boy?!?!